I got these a couple years ago and still love them. The "band" is like a bent piece of thick metal wire but it isn't noticeable in my hair and its comfortable enough that it doesn't bother me. The lace is very pretty and soft.
Generally they stay in place for me unless its windy. And its pretty easy to adjust the ear shape.
I can see some with veil over my eyes but can also wear it back or pin it so it lands just above my eyes.